10 Tips For The First Time Mom.

I asked on my blog what should be the first thing I post about on my new Mommy Blog and I got multiple answers which can all be answered over time but for now I'm going to share some helpful tips for the first time mom. Enjoy!

Tip 1: Sleep when your newborn sleeps! Most new moms are on a high all of their own after having a baby due to the excitement and think they can survive with very little or no sleep at all. That's not the case and I suggest you don't try it. Everything you need to get done around the house can wait until after you wake up. Sleep is crucial in the first few months of motherhood. Every chance you have... SLEEP!

Tip 2: Develop your bond with the baby. The bond you develop with your baby in the first few days, weeks, months, and even years will affect your childs psychological health later on in life. Have lots of skin to skin contact and eye contact. 

Tip 3: How to Soothe Your Baby; Hold your baby on your shoulder and pat rythmically and firmly in the center of their back. While you're doing this put your mouth near his/her ear and whisper a long shhh sound. Remember not to blow directly into the ear as you could damage it, blow past the ear. Also, babies love to be swaddled. It reminds them of being in the womb.

Tip 4: Watch out for over stimulation; Every parent loves playtime especially with all of the cool new toys out there but over stimulating your child could cause them to become over tired. At that point the baby is stressed out, you're stressed out, and neither of you are getting any sleep. If this happens, go sit somewhere quiet and dark and use the pat/shh technique (listed above) Also humming and rocking works too :)

Tip 5: Plan, Plan, Plan!!! Planning for meal times, naps, bathtime, travel, ect will make motherhood a lot easier for you. Make sure you have everything ready before each task. It kills me when people go out to public with their kids and bring NOTHING with them. If you're going out in public, you need to bring it all! Diapers, wipes, pacifer, bibs, spare clothes, bottles, formula, ad ointment, breast pads, the list goes on. Be prepared, anything can happen!

Tip 6: Help your newborn learn to sleep: Put your baby down to sleep when he/she is already awake. You want your baby to learn to go to sleep on his/her own so they can develop good sleeping habits. Teaching your baby that nighttime is for sleeping is a good thing to do straight away. Do this by creating a bedtime routine such as bath, pj's, feeding time, and a quiet cuddle. Keep outside noise and stimulation to a dull minimum as it will keep the baby from sleeping longer.

Tip 7: Have Fun! Look after yourself and make sure you still have fun. It's hard to find time for yourself with a new baby around but do try to set aside a half an hour everyday so you can do something you enjoy doing. If you neglect your needs you could start to resent your baby. 

Tip 8: Socialize. At first everyone comes to see you once the baby is born but person by person they slowly start to disinigrate. Get outside of the house, talk to friends, other new moms, ect. Isolation could bring on depression which isn't good for either you or the baby. 

Tip 9: Learn About Your Babies Needs. Gaining knowledge about what your baby needs will help you succeed in becoming the parent you want to be. 

Tip 10: Buy second hand! Most young mothers are on low incomes and still learning to manage their money. Also babies grow so fast out of clothes that it's not really worth buying new things for them just so they can wear them once.

Hope this helps you new mothers and congratulations to you on your new little addition :)